"Dear Harriet" - agony aunt for ND problems (for fun!)

Magazines and newspapers used to have an “agony aunt” column, where people could ask for advice about relationships. So, how about an ND-problems agony aunt?

What’s your question?


Dear Harriet

How can I get my NT neighbours to stop dropping by and ringing my doorbell without warning? They seem unsure and surprised when I answer the door in my pyjamas with unwashed hair on days when I’m not expecting anyone. Should I post a notice on the door to ring come back in half an hour?

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  • Dear Phased,

    I am so glad that your friend has an understanding neighbour in you.

    I think it might be helpful just to tell your neighbour, either face-to-face when you see them or leaving them a nice note.

    You could try joining in with the PJs and unwashed hair vibe, maybe when answering your door to them first, before you try it on their doorstep? 

    Night night,

    'H'