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I'm sick of helping everyone else!

Kool_kat

I'm a teacher. Just a class teacher, not SLT. At the moment I'm trying to support 2 colleagues going through a hard time. This morning I spent 20 minutes checking in on them. Then I had another colleague come and spend a good 10 minutes moaning at me about things the head teacher has done. Then someone came asking me to help fix their laptop, then someone else wanted me to cover their playground duty. Then the head turned up and asked me to sort another IT problem. 

Not one of those people asked how I am. Not one of them spotted I'd been crying (my eyes were really red so I thought it was obvious). 

I just feel like I'm done with the world. Even my own husband doesn't ever ask if im ok. 

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  • Firstly, 

    Kool_kat said:
    I'm a teacher. Just a class teacher,

    There is no such thing, I think teaching is one of the most demanding jobs there is.  Set some boundaries, I’ve had similar, everyone has always come to me to sort something out, I suppose it’s because we are generally good problem solvers and can think diagonally. Nobody ever asks if I’m okay, I tend to people please. 
    Maybe just take a step back and tell them you are too busy to help, chin up, not long until the summer holidays.

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  • Firstly, 

    Kool_kat said:
    I'm a teacher. Just a class teacher,

    There is no such thing, I think teaching is one of the most demanding jobs there is.  Set some boundaries, I’ve had similar, everyone has always come to me to sort something out, I suppose it’s because we are generally good problem solvers and can think diagonally. Nobody ever asks if I’m okay, I tend to people please. 
    Maybe just take a step back and tell them you are too busy to help, chin up, not long until the summer holidays.

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