I am 30 and high functioning autistic with a mild learning disability. I met a guy online and he told me we should meet up at a motel to have sex. We were planning on casually hooking up. I said no I want to meet up in your car at first. Then I also said I can’t go to the motel because my parents still track my location to keep me safe. I am still living with my parents that’s why. He kept saying why is your location being tracked and why can’t you go to the motel with me? You are an adult. I said I don’t feel comfortable yet and my location is being tracked and I don’t want my parents seeing I’m going to a motel. Then he said totally understandable then blocked me. I got to know him on an hookup app for a few weeks. It’s not like I didn’t know who he was at all. I am taking proper precautions. Anyone can have their location tracked. I don’t want to turn off my location and go against my parents because of this. Guys block me because of my location being tracked and them pushing me to go to a motel sometimes and say why can’t you you’re an adult. Why do they keep saying you are an adult you can meet me there! They say I’m an adult and can do whatever I want. Parents track their kids location for my cousins too and they aren’t autistic so it’s not unusual for a parent to track their kids location as an adult. Are my parents in the wrong my tracking my location? And does that make me “like a child”? Because I am not! I hope guys or anyone won’t think that. What do you think?
