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Late possible diagnosis/ toddler diagnosis

Millie89

Hello,

My two year old son has been showing signs of being autistic for a while.

i am currently trying to navigate how to go about getting him help.

However while doing some of the early tests for him the expert I am in touch with suggested I do the adult version of the assessment.

It’s blown my mind at 37 year old that a lot of my life ‘struggles’ could be done down to me also being autistic.

I am looking for support as anyone I have mentioned it to so far have said ‘you’re not autistic’.They don’t realise how much effort I put in to daily life to appear ‘normal’

I have been saying since my son was 1 that he was showing signs and now he’s nearly 3 people are starting to agree with me! 

I’ve have long been the ‘ problem child’ in my family. I was diagnosed with a personality disorder around 5 years ago and that got diminished by my parents etc too.

i guess i am feeling at bit lost and overwhelmed! Any advice or guidance please!

Thank you for reading 

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  • HeyMillie89, 
    It's a very familiar story to find out about being autistic by first finding out about it for our children. I only started looking into it as my son was on the pathway, and then I started finding out about what it looked like for adults and came to the same realisation as you.

    I think some professionals want to wait to diagnose when they are very young (0-2), to be certain, but it makes sense that you'll have seen it as he grows. I'm not sure the pathway for young children, I think the health visitors and gp's can help, as well as nursery when he starts that? Hopefully someone else knows a bit more from their personal experience. 

    But yeah, it does often run in families, which can be very shocking to discover so late, but it suddenly makes so much sense. It wasn't really understood when we were kids, I hope the realisation brings more kindness to yourself as you explore it. I ended up watching videos, listening to podcasts and reading books, and of course, reaching out here, chatting, reading and asking questions and relating to others, it helps bring self validation. 

    Wishing you well.

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  • HeyMillie89, 
    It's a very familiar story to find out about being autistic by first finding out about it for our children. I only started looking into it as my son was on the pathway, and then I started finding out about what it looked like for adults and came to the same realisation as you.

    I think some professionals want to wait to diagnose when they are very young (0-2), to be certain, but it makes sense that you'll have seen it as he grows. I'm not sure the pathway for young children, I think the health visitors and gp's can help, as well as nursery when he starts that? Hopefully someone else knows a bit more from their personal experience. 

    But yeah, it does often run in families, which can be very shocking to discover so late, but it suddenly makes so much sense. It wasn't really understood when we were kids, I hope the realisation brings more kindness to yourself as you explore it. I ended up watching videos, listening to podcasts and reading books, and of course, reaching out here, chatting, reading and asking questions and relating to others, it helps bring self validation. 

    Wishing you well.

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