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Draziwekans

How do you know what is 'Normal'. What is the normal reaction to things. How do people react to situations normally.  How do you know if you've done the wrong thing, said the wrong thing. It is confusing and I'm sure leads to barriers going up, hyper alertness, on edge and shutting down making it even harder to communicate. So then how do you know whats real.

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  • I have often done and said the wrong thing. With wisdom I have learnt to pause more and listen to my intuition. Stunned silence can be an indicator that I have behaved in a way that is not considered to be normal. Oversharing, being too outspoken, you just kind of get the sense that you’ve committed some sort of faux pas by the way that people react to you but to be honest I tend to gravitate towards people who behave in these ways and I have heard it said that it’s best not to hide who you are otherwise the people who love you and value you won’t be able to find you! Who wants to be normal? Not sure I know what it means nor would want to be it were that a possibility. 

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  • I have often done and said the wrong thing. With wisdom I have learnt to pause more and listen to my intuition. Stunned silence can be an indicator that I have behaved in a way that is not considered to be normal. Oversharing, being too outspoken, you just kind of get the sense that you’ve committed some sort of faux pas by the way that people react to you but to be honest I tend to gravitate towards people who behave in these ways and I have heard it said that it’s best not to hide who you are otherwise the people who love you and value you won’t be able to find you! Who wants to be normal? Not sure I know what it means nor would want to be it were that a possibility. 

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