To what extent do you feel people care when you tell them you have ASD?

What I mean is that I have had quite mixed responses. In different contexts. I am not sure to the general public pupoluation whether it means much the same, or as it did to me before I knew I was autistic. By 'care' I mean when people genuinely seem to want to understand how that is, feels, or try to empathise with you.

I'm not sure what kind of resonse I am looking for when I tell people. Or if I should expect anything at all.It seems like public understanding is a massive issue, or the ways autism is understood varies greatly from person to person. 

Sorry if this is triggering to anyone. I am interested to know this not so much of your experience of telling close family members, more outer circles and aquaintances.

I may rephrase this question. But keep a record of the original in the description.

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  • My mum dismissed me and said no I wasn't 

    My husband only started learning when I went into yet another burnout, yet I had my diagnosis for 2 years 

    Work colleagues firstly assessed me against what they thought autism was, or someone they know who is autistic and compared to say no I couldn't be 

    Others said don't let it define you 

    Others said we're all on the spectrum 

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  • My mum dismissed me and said no I wasn't 

    My husband only started learning when I went into yet another burnout, yet I had my diagnosis for 2 years 

    Work colleagues firstly assessed me against what they thought autism was, or someone they know who is autistic and compared to say no I couldn't be 

    Others said don't let it define you 

    Others said we're all on the spectrum 

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