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Autism & Dating

Connor

I’ve never had a relationship, I’m 29 and recently diagnosed AuDHD (which may go some way to explaining it), I’ve tried dating apps which just seem the most pointless thing on earth, also not sure if I should or shouldn’t disclose my diagnosis.

Does anyone have any positive relationship experiences, if so, how did it come about? I’m quite sensitive so I highly doubt I’d approach someone for fear of rejection so my only options feels like it is dating apps, however I get no interest, I would like to meet someone but atm I just feel like giving up.  

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  • Hi Connor my daughter has had success both prior to and post diagnosis using online sites but she prefers non-dating sites such as Bumble for friends. You can also find sites for writing to new people all over the world like penpals but online. We have found these to be less superficial as they are not video based so it encourages focus on who you are as a person rather than how typically good looking you appear or act.

    Please don't give up Connor you just need to find the right kind of people where you fit. Also getting out or just going for a walk and setting yourself a new goal each time( e.g. like today I'm going to smile at 3 new people) can help gradually increase how many people you know. My daughter found just focusing on making friends first worked best and  now she has been in a relationship for 6 months & eventually you'll meet more people that appreciate you too! All the best, we're all cheering you on!partying faceThumbsup tone1Smile cat

  • in reply to Sharmae

    Thank you for such a lovely comment! Relaxed️

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