Tone of voice.

Does anyone else find they are constantly checking their tone of voice when answering a question?
It’s something I just seem to put a lot of energy into, constantly scanning that I haven’t sounded too unhappy, uninterested or annoyed. I make sure the pitch of my voice rises and I smile.

I’m generally quite happy, I just find if I’m not constantly checking my tone that I seem to be accused of something. It gets to the point of causing anxiety, exhaustion and not wanting to talk. It’s harder to answer a question when tired.

Parents
  • My family have said when I am attempting to be flippant, I sound deadly serious. Also that my genuine mirth sometimes comes across as derision. My autism assessment has a comment that I have a 'flat affect'. So I have to conclude that my intention is not always reflected in my communication outcomes.

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  • My family have said when I am attempting to be flippant, I sound deadly serious. Also that my genuine mirth sometimes comes across as derision. My autism assessment has a comment that I have a 'flat affect'. So I have to conclude that my intention is not always reflected in my communication outcomes.

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