Are autistic people nice people?

I think you can get bad apples in every bunch and i`d rarely except any excuse for being an A`hole in general.

But what I will say is my social awkwardness and avoidance which makes me for the most part quiet and apprehensive to make any initial efforts can give the wrong impression. And most people seem quick to label you as cold, unfriendly and unapproachable. Which couldnt be further from the truth. 

FitMisfit said:

A`hole

What does it mean to be an A'hole?

To not be nice in general i suppose

Very predictable 

I would like to remind you of the Online Community Rules. 

Rule 7: Be respectful in discussions
Disagreements are fine, but personal attacks, insults, and swearing are not. Respect other viewpoints and avoid escalating arguments.

I was genuinely trying to understand your view by asking for examples, because you engaged with my post. The dismissive tone isn’t helpful, so I’m going to end the conversation here. I feel belittled and dismissed by how this was handled, and that doesn’t feel respectful. 

My bad. I shouldve mentioned thats also how I judge someone being nice or not. Through the idea of Common decency

If you are simply asking for real world examples of someone being nice, like saying something nice or doing something nice, i`m not really sure why you need those from me

the example you used about taking your shoes off is pretty ridiculous and your concept of someone being nice or not seems weak af. Try chatgpt for whatever it is you are trying to get from this

I do not understand your last message. I was hoping to understand what your understanding of nice is, not most people's. For example, you might think taking your shoes off before entering the supermarket is considered nice. A few examples would have been helpful.

FitMisfit said:

Is common decency subjective as well? 

This appears to be a question.

I am grateful you tried to answer my question. I am sad I did not realise that a question was your answer at the time.

I do not understand your last message. I was hoping to understand what your understanding of nice is, not most people's. For example, you might think taking your shoes off before entering the supermarket is considered nice. A few examples would have been helpful.

FitMisfit said:

Is common decency subjective as well? 

This appears to be a question.

I am grateful you tried to answer my question. I am sad I did not realise that a question was your answer at the time.

Very predictable 

I would like to remind you of the Online Community Rules. 

Rule 7: Be respectful in discussions
Disagreements are fine, but personal attacks, insults, and swearing are not. Respect other viewpoints and avoid escalating arguments.

I was genuinely trying to understand your view by asking for examples, because you engaged with my post. The dismissive tone isn’t helpful, so I’m going to end the conversation here. I feel belittled and dismissed by how this was handled, and that doesn’t feel respectful. 

My bad. I shouldve mentioned thats also how I judge someone being nice or not. Through the idea of Common decency

If you are simply asking for real world examples of someone being nice, like saying something nice or doing something nice, i`m not really sure why you need those from me

the example you used about taking your shoes off is pretty ridiculous and your concept of someone being nice or not seems weak af. Try chatgpt for whatever it is you are trying to get from this