Are autistic people nice people?

I’m curious about how autistic people are perceived socially, particularly around ideas like “niceness” and friendliness, which can be quite subjective and culturally defined.

From your own experiences, how do you interpret or experience interactions with autistic people? Do you think differences in communication style affect how autistic people are perceived as “nice” or not?

For those who have autistic friends (or are autistic themselves), what do you value in those friendships? What do you think autistic people often bring to relationships that might be overlooked or misunderstood?

I don't believe I've had autistic friends and don't seek autistic people out as potential friends so I'm curious to know whether other people are the similar.

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  • Hi  

    Could you clarify what you mean by “took your neuro typical lens off”?

    I want to understand whether this comment is directed at me specifically, or whether you’re making a more general point. I’m also unclear whether you’re assuming that someone in this thread is neurotypical.

    I would prefer if the discussion in this thread focuses on ideas rather than assumptions about individuals, and I’m open to clarification if you’re willing to share it.