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Bananatropics26

I can't have sexual intimacy with grown women. I hate my life. Satan doesn't get it as hard as I get it. I'm as hard as they come. I'm a 25 year old virgin. Does noone exist in this crappy world. I wish I went to a different planet instead of this crappy one. I just got used again by a woman claiming she has autism. I hate my life it says something when you get used by your own kind. I will think twice from now on about trusting autistic people 

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    Bananatropics26 said:
    Way I see it I get to take my mood out on people as punishment and tax for my delayed virginity

    As I see it this is an issue for both you and the people you want to be with.

    I would suggest you consider if it is worth using a professional to help you get over the virginity issue and ask them to teach you how to interact sexually with a woman in a healthy way. Forget what p0rn shows and listen to someone who does this for a living - they will know what you should know.

    Next  my suggestion is to learn to stop objectifying women for sex and work on making a connection with the person. It is not going to be easy and there is a lot to unlearn from old habits but when you can build a relationship then the sex is a natural extension of this.

    When you can deal with this ability to connect then you can find yourself in a position to decide if you want to connect in the more traditional sense with a parter or if you want to seek hookups using dating apps - they are also a valid choice but understanding what is going on in the dynamic here is something you should learn a lot about first since it is very easy to make yourself unappealing to potential hook up partners.

    It all takes a lot of work but I believe it is worth it. Once you get good enough to have a partner then ask them to teach you how to be better . Learn and understand and you will have the ability to mask your way to whatever opportunities you chose to persue later on.

    Step 1 is to get help though.

    All this is only my opinion though so feel free to ignore it.

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