My husband refuses to believe he has adhd/autism!!! Life is he'll sometimes

My husband refuses to believe he has adhd/autism or both and living with him is taking a toll on my mental health and i really need help in how to deal with an adult who is in denial and does not listen to my advice?

He doesn't talk to me if he doesn't get his way. He doesn't communicate with me about anything unless he wants to talk. Im loosing my patience with him and need to be shown how to deal with this behaviour. Some of his family members have it and have been diagnosed so they also help with how I should deal with his behaviour but is this my life now???? This is tiring and mentally hard to deal with.

I need help!!!

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  • Ive got ASD and me and my wife really struggled, there are still struggles but communication between us and working together was a major part of us moving forward. Also me realising there was a problem with me and seeking proffessional help also helped loads. I tell her everything now and involve her when i seek proffession help. Communicatiin help her understand more and helped her with patience and understanding and being supportive of my issues. We still have struggles but wothout communication we wouldnt have moved forward. Try and be patient for as long as you can and try and get your husband to seek proffessional help 

  • Yeh i have been very patient for years now and I think this is why im even on this forum because the commication has stopped and he doesn't think he need professional help so I am stuck. 

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