If you are extremely articulate then your seen as extremely able. What can you do if you can’t mix with people and are highly sensitive person but seen as very able and full of attitude. Do you think this is not autistic?
If you are extremely articulate then your seen as extremely able. What can you do if you can’t mix with people and are highly sensitive person but seen as very able and full of attitude. Do you think this is not autistic?
Just to be clear I’m not articulate and there’s no tone in this post and I’m not full of attitude but I am highly sensitive person. Just wanted ask the question as I appear to people like I have an attitude problem when I’m just angry about some important things to me. I recognise I don’t think the same as anyone but I know that being a highly sensitive person is neurodivergent and that’s definitely me. I would like to have another assessment as I believe the people who assessed me where so lovely but not possibly aware of people like me who is autistic but female and I know I don’t appear autistic but I am and I should be given a nhs verified diagnosis instead of living with out the diagnosis and also because I didn’t go into the appointment with my memory and mental health state properly. But from everything I’ve read in regards to assessment on this post. I think that I’m getting the message that it’s highly likely I won’t be diagnosed as autistic even though I am. So that’s actually the truth of it and it’s not worth paying for an assessment to get told I’m not. Thanks for all your replies as they are all good and helpful but I’m sorry I didn’t answer any of the questions that’s been asked.
Happy new year when it comes!
Why has this thread suddenly become unfriendly?
Thanks for your question.
I think it is due to different perceptions of intent, high-stakes topics, lengthy analytical posts, online communication limitations, and mix of advice vs personal experience. It is not unfriendly because we have done anything wrong. It's a natural result of misaligned interpretations, sensitive topics, and forum dynamics.
ArchaeC From what I’ve seen here, nothing seems intentionally wrong or malicious. it’s just people navigating a complex, emotionally charged topic online. It can look messy because everyone communicates differently. I think all contributions are valued.
Dear Moderators (Katrina Mod Marc Mod Anna Mod Chloe Mod Olivia Mod I have tagged a few in the hope someone will respond),
Would it be possible for you to help myself and TheCatWoman to understand the "Forum Dynamics". It appears we are struggling.
Hope you can help.
I will be sad to see you go too. I hope you feel better soon. Take care.
I will be so sorry to see you go Cinnabar_wing I understand how suggestive remarks put out by a minority can manipulate feelings and make you feel unworthy of being here, but I believe that the majority of people don’t think that you shouldn’t be here and they value your contribution.
I have asked for my account to be removed
I will be sorry to see you go.
Take care and be safe.
"It might be worth reflecting on whether forums feel like a supportive space for you right now, especially if questions are being perceived as conflict."
Nowhere in this sentence has told you that you are unsuitable to be here.
I do not know about this gossiping behind the scenes that you speak off. Sorry, I cannot be of more help. I hope the moderators can help us both.
That is a strong accusation. I most certainly did not tell you that you are unsuitable to be here.
I said I got overwhelmed by too many questions which soboiceland informed me is against forum dynamics and makes me unsuitable to be here. I have asked for my account to be removed but it is a bank holiday so please have patience, the moderators need time off too.
Nobody is asked for proof of diagnosis and nor should they be but that dosen't excuse unfriendliness.
Maybe the moderators should provide a detailed analysis of forum dynamics, like I said before one of the things I've always liked about this forum is its openess and lack of people gossiping behind the scenes about other members are you implying that this is now happening?
I don’t want to label or judge anyone as naive, as that wouldn’t be my place.
From my own experience, this forum includes people at many different stages, including those who are questioning or still figuring things out. When I joined, I wasn’t asked to provide proof of diagnosis, which suggests the space is intentionally broad and inclusive.
If you want a more detailed perspective on terms like ‘forum dynamics,’ moderators might be able to help clarify.
I'm autistic I don't understand 'forum dynamics' as anything more than I posted previously. One of the things I've always liked about this place is the lack of '..invisible social currents..' all of us being ND seems to mean that we're more forgiving and open and don't gather behind the scenes and gossip about other members, or am I being incredibly naive?
I'm autistic I don't understand 'forum dynamics' as anything more than I posted previously. One of the things I've always liked about this place is the lack of '..invisible social currents..' all of us being ND seems to mean that we're more forgiving and open and don't gather behind the scenes and gossip about other members, or am I being incredibly naive?
ArchaeC From what I’ve seen here, nothing seems intentionally wrong or malicious. it’s just people navigating a complex, emotionally charged topic online. It can look messy because everyone communicates differently. I think all contributions are valued.
Dear Moderators (Katrina Mod Marc Mod Anna Mod Chloe Mod Olivia Mod I have tagged a few in the hope someone will respond),
Would it be possible for you to help myself and TheCatWoman to understand the "Forum Dynamics". It appears we are struggling.
Hope you can help.
I will be sad to see you go too. I hope you feel better soon. Take care.
I will be so sorry to see you go Cinnabar_wing I understand how suggestive remarks put out by a minority can manipulate feelings and make you feel unworthy of being here, but I believe that the majority of people don’t think that you shouldn’t be here and they value your contribution.
I have asked for my account to be removed
I will be sorry to see you go.
Take care and be safe.
"It might be worth reflecting on whether forums feel like a supportive space for you right now, especially if questions are being perceived as conflict."
Nowhere in this sentence has told you that you are unsuitable to be here.
I do not know about this gossiping behind the scenes that you speak off. Sorry, I cannot be of more help. I hope the moderators can help us both.
That is a strong accusation. I most certainly did not tell you that you are unsuitable to be here.
I said I got overwhelmed by too many questions which soboiceland informed me is against forum dynamics and makes me unsuitable to be here. I have asked for my account to be removed but it is a bank holiday so please have patience, the moderators need time off too.
Nobody is asked for proof of diagnosis and nor should they be but that dosen't excuse unfriendliness.
Maybe the moderators should provide a detailed analysis of forum dynamics, like I said before one of the things I've always liked about this forum is its openess and lack of people gossiping behind the scenes about other members are you implying that this is now happening?
I don’t want to label or judge anyone as naive, as that wouldn’t be my place.
From my own experience, this forum includes people at many different stages, including those who are questioning or still figuring things out. When I joined, I wasn’t asked to provide proof of diagnosis, which suggests the space is intentionally broad and inclusive.
If you want a more detailed perspective on terms like ‘forum dynamics,’ moderators might be able to help clarify.
