How do you keep people at arms length and to stop digging into your personal business without offending them?
How do you keep people at arms length and to stop digging into your personal business without offending them?
I think Stuart is right with
If they see you are uncomfortable they assume you have a secret, so they are curious.
My go-to when I don’t want to open up to people is “grey-rocking.” Make yourself as uninteresting as possible. When asked questions answer with simple yes/no responses. As others have said, always let them know that you don’t want to discuss certain things further, but try not to make it seem like you are holding something back.
"I'd rather not talk about it."
Is a good go-to. Or “That’s not something I’m interested in talking about” could work too.
Being uninteresting makes you less of a target for people prying into your business.
I think Stuart is right with
If they see you are uncomfortable they assume you have a secret, so they are curious.
My go-to when I don’t want to open up to people is “grey-rocking.” Make yourself as uninteresting as possible. When asked questions answer with simple yes/no responses. As others have said, always let them know that you don’t want to discuss certain things further, but try not to make it seem like you are holding something back.
"I'd rather not talk about it."
Is a good go-to. Or “That’s not something I’m interested in talking about” could work too.
Being uninteresting makes you less of a target for people prying into your business.