How do you keep people at arms length and to stop digging into your personal business without offending them?
How do you keep people at arms length and to stop digging into your personal business without offending them?
Its a difficult one, some people feel they have the right to ask and that you have to tell them, they're like a machine gun with their barrage of questions. Tell her you are choosing not to answer and that you're a private person, if she persists then ask her what she feels is the difference between privacy and secrecy?
That sounds like quite a sensible way of dealing with it actually. Thank you ️
You could see if it's pure noisiness or an awkward attempt to start a friendship, but turning the questions back on her, and asking things like is she married and how long etc? That was you remain polite and open to making a friend without being walled off.
You could see if it's pure noisiness or an awkward attempt to start a friendship, but turning the questions back on her, and asking things like is she married and how long etc? That was you remain polite and open to making a friend without being walled off.