I have quite a hard exterior irl contrarily I’m also really friendly with people I know, I suppose there was a long time where I might tell a lot of things to strangers. I’m much more aware of when I’m doing this now and who to trust. You have to think of everything like business it’s your business only and it has value. You have to close all of the inner circles to only the people you trust or love. No one can force their way in unless you let them, not getting over excited is a big thing for me. I have got much better at not letting people read my eyes.
more generally (going out) It’s like the wolf at the door, you have to make yourself feel secure, headphones clothes, blinds darks sunglasses whatever gets you through it. I struggle with this and people belittle it me every day (or attempting to) particularly young men. It’s how much you let it bother you days or doesn’t bother you they will see this and not see any opportunity to go through you. So in short that your own knowledge is what will stop people overly reading your body language, but you also need to work on your self discipline about the levels of divulgence and also how present you are in situations if at all.
I have quite a hard exterior irl contrarily I’m also really friendly with people I know, I suppose there was a long time where I might tell a lot of things to strangers. I’m much more aware of when I’m doing this now and who to trust. You have to think of everything like business it’s your business only and it has value. You have to close all of the inner circles to only the people you trust or love. No one can force their way in unless you let them, not getting over excited is a big thing for me. I have got much better at not letting people read my eyes.
more generally (going out) It’s like the wolf at the door, you have to make yourself feel secure, headphones clothes, blinds darks sunglasses whatever gets you through it. I struggle with this and people belittle it me every day (or attempting to) particularly young men. It’s how much you let it bother you days or doesn’t bother you they will see this and not see any opportunity to go through you. So in short that your own knowledge is what will stop people overly reading your body language, but you also need to work on your self discipline about the levels of divulgence and also how present you are in situations if at all.
