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Really struggling at the moment

Elfilis

As the title says. Guess it’s another rant post again so sorry for this. 

Been having such awful times since last Friday. Everyone is just being so mean to me, especially my bully neighbours Sob. All this stress has just got the better of me (despite trying to avoid or distract myself from stress) and it’s leading to daily headaches which are throbbing like crazy. I’ve had my Christmas decorations mocked and scoffed by these neighbours and they keep screaming and crying and even kicking footballs into my door. Annoyingly my doorbell camera can’t seem to pick up the kicking of the football into my door or even my doormat being kicked. Whenever I open my door and they are there they now scream and cry even louder than ever and say things like ugly or something! Even getting this on my doorbell thing when they walk past. Not to mention how I am now unable to sleep because all these kids do is scream, screech, cry etc. Why do people have to be so cruel and mean? What did I do to deserve all this? I can’t help the way I look and I’m like the most modest person and even I think I am nicer looking than all of them. I’m not the one being unkind or thinking unkindly it’s everyone else so please don’t say I’m the unkind one! 

Sorry for my rant I just need to get off my chest. I can’t even enjoy my weekend or that because of them screeching!! My sims are better behaved haha! 

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  • Hi  !

    I'm really sorry this is happening to you, your home should be a place of sanctuary. You have done nothing to deserve their treatment. I really hope you find some comfort soon.

    I cannot believe their grandparents and parents are so irresponsible and not teaching them this behaviour is absolutely unacceptable. 

    You are doing the right thing by documenting what is happening and reaching out, even if it is a rant! 

    Do you have someone you can talk to about this? A friend or family member? 

    Maybe report them to the local council or housing authority if you feel ready. 

    Loz Smiley cat

  • in reply to Loz

    Hiya Loz! Thank you for getting back to me! I love my home and that but ugh the neighbours think they own me when they don’t.

    I tend to talk about this with my mum and she said she is willing to complain to them on my behalf but I had no proof of that at the time hence I got the video doorbell. I’ve been looking into a camera to put in my window as well but not sure if that will arrive before Christmas! I just hope they won’t be here for Christmas or I am going to suffer. All day today one of my windows has been target practice. 

    The parents and grandparents seem to think their kids are the world’s best and we should all bow down to them and if we don’t look the way they want, they will bully or cry. But the fact they are throwing toys and footballs at mine and in the main hallways shouldn’t be allowed. I just don’t understand why they can’t teach the kids right from wrong? There again being nice to people is wrong according to them no doubt. 

    I will definitely report this if this carries on as it’s unacceptable behaviour! My worry is that people will go against me and not forgive them for being kids, but in my opinion that shouldn’t excuse behaviour like that. When I was little and I was naughty or something I’d get told off. If I cried I’d be taken somewhere quiet. These guys are the complete opposite! 

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  • in reply to Loz

    Hiya Loz! Thank you for getting back to me! I love my home and that but ugh the neighbours think they own me when they don’t.

    I tend to talk about this with my mum and she said she is willing to complain to them on my behalf but I had no proof of that at the time hence I got the video doorbell. I’ve been looking into a camera to put in my window as well but not sure if that will arrive before Christmas! I just hope they won’t be here for Christmas or I am going to suffer. All day today one of my windows has been target practice. 

    The parents and grandparents seem to think their kids are the world’s best and we should all bow down to them and if we don’t look the way they want, they will bully or cry. But the fact they are throwing toys and footballs at mine and in the main hallways shouldn’t be allowed. I just don’t understand why they can’t teach the kids right from wrong? There again being nice to people is wrong according to them no doubt. 

    I will definitely report this if this carries on as it’s unacceptable behaviour! My worry is that people will go against me and not forgive them for being kids, but in my opinion that shouldn’t excuse behaviour like that. When I was little and I was naughty or something I’d get told off. If I cried I’d be taken somewhere quiet. These guys are the complete opposite! 

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