I was struck again yesterday by the power of a change of language to change one’s perception of autism and autistic traits. The example I came across was an alternative expansion of PDA: instead of pathological demand avoidance, it is sometimes referred to as a pervasive drive for autonomy.
Previously, I had dismissed the possibility that I might exhibit PDA (avoidance? pathological??). But pervasive drive for autonomy? That fits like a glove. From my childhood rejection of any help that my teachers offered to my inability to work as part of a team (unless I have a clearly defined autonomous role to play) to my suspicion of anyone who tries to exert authority over me.
So, I was wondering whether you have similar experiences of seeing an autistic trait in a new (and more positive) light because it has been described in a new way?