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Chris

Hi 

Recently, during a phone call, a mental health worker suddenly started using a lot more metaphorical language than they normally do. I have spoken to this person before and has never used this much language, I have told him I have autism and I have spoke to him 5 times in the past trying to reach out, I have told him previous about people taken advantage of me before by overwhelming me with indirect language and lies and I become vulnerable, which is why I have been reaching out for support, this is why he has done this on purpose as I was reaching out because people had control over me and he understood that and done the same back this is bullying, and to get away with it all he is now saying it is just there language he uses, I have since rang back the service and now he lied to them saying it’s because I have autism and they can’t work with me because of the language barrier, I understand some indirect language as it’s not hard to match it but the way this person done it was to get a reaction out of me this is leaving me unable to cope as I have no friends or family and this was meant to be my support to help me develop correctly but it’s getting harder and harder the more I ask for help, all my hope has gone and don’t feel safe with anyone anymore 

has anyone else been manipulated by services who are meant to listen and help because they CANNOT get away with this disgusting behaviour 

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  • I had some issues with individual mental health practitioners - made me worried about their mental health!

    I e-mailed the service explaining my version of what had happened and asked for the service manager to phone me and then worked from there 

    I told the about my concern for the clinician as I would have expected them, if they weren't feeling so stressed, to have been able to make the adjustments necessary for understanding and communicating with me as an autistic person and not making it a "personal" issue.

    Got offered an appointment with the person who trains them in working with autistic people and so far so good...

  • in reply to Phased

    And I always think its me, i need to learn how to handle these situations moving forward I like the way you handled it, I let all the issues build up as I just suppress everything but I need to make sure I handle it at the time

  • in reply to Chris

    I had my 25 yo daughter in the room soon after it happened to 1) talk me down 2) make me behave like a responsible adult under the circumstances (I needed to show her that I could get my sh1t together and deal with it)  

    Have to say that being messed in my head going into a situation and then getting more messed up by it is a challenge.

    I guess that for me having been in the situation where I've "lost it" with other people I could empathise a bit with the other person but still stand up for myself too.

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  • in reply to Chris

    I had my 25 yo daughter in the room soon after it happened to 1) talk me down 2) make me behave like a responsible adult under the circumstances (I needed to show her that I could get my sh1t together and deal with it)  

    Have to say that being messed in my head going into a situation and then getting more messed up by it is a challenge.

    I guess that for me having been in the situation where I've "lost it" with other people I could empathise a bit with the other person but still stand up for myself too.

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