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Opening up about autism at work

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Hi everyone 

I'm new here. I'm currently off work for a couple of months due to general mental health issues. Part of this is that I'm just starting to work through that I'm likely autistic. I've been referred for an assessment by my GP (which will take months to begin) but I know myself really well and I think it's extremely likely that the assessment will say I'm autistic. I've felt that I might be for years but have never built up the strength to do anything about it.

I work in a job/role that really isn't that compatible to my autistic traits but I've masked so long and so well that no one would really know how deeply uncomfortable and distressing it is to me on a day to day basis. This period off work feels like the culmination of me trying to cope for years and years and finally getting to my limit.

I'm really keen that this is a turning point for me where I'm really open with my work about things because this feels like a huge opportunity for me to change my life for the better by finally just being open and honest. But this is also terrifying me and I keep getting stuck on the "but they "know" me as this person so how can I then be like, actually that isn't really me, I've just been incredibly good at masking for a long time" thought pattern.

I'd love to hear anyone's experience of this kind of thing or tips on how to approach it cos at the moment I'm trying to make my way through it without a clue what I'm doing or what I could do.

Thank you Heart️ 

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  • I haven't told my work yet, as my current position is now so little direct contact I feel i don't need to  -though I burned out of my last job earlier this year so I've been there, so to speak, and know the pain and dangers of over-stretching.  

    I think others might have more relevant advice as mine feels second hand, but taking small steps in revealing can let you 'test the waters' of how they might react to you -so revealing sensitives like if it's too bright or noisy perhaps and asking for accomodations around them? 

    I wish you luck on your journey to a happier you!

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  • I haven't told my work yet, as my current position is now so little direct contact I feel i don't need to  -though I burned out of my last job earlier this year so I've been there, so to speak, and know the pain and dangers of over-stretching.  

    I think others might have more relevant advice as mine feels second hand, but taking small steps in revealing can let you 'test the waters' of how they might react to you -so revealing sensitives like if it's too bright or noisy perhaps and asking for accomodations around them? 

    I wish you luck on your journey to a happier you!

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