App recommendations for flexible routines?

Hi,

Just wondering if anyone has found an android ai app that helps them manage routines and flow in a more flexible way?

Or even how the following problem is usually summarised, so that I can look into ways to fix it!

I struggle with maintaining any sort of consistency when something interrupts my usual routines. If I have to meet a someone somewhere at 11am, this disrupts me to the extent that everything else turns to chaos. Yes, I manage to turn up at the right place at the right time but when I get home my house is in chaos, I've not eaten, i'm exhausted because I didn't sleep and completely disorientated. I'm basically only capable of meeting my basic needs if i'm at home alone all day everyday at the moment.

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  • I don't know if this is what you are struggling with but I get into lots of difficulty when appointment times change. 

    I have a set routine up to the usual appointment time and if that changes I'm continually working times out in my head like how long this will take and can I fit that in. I think it might be called time blindness.

    I haven't found a way to fix it only to try to have the same appointment times.

    If you are meeting your basic needs that is something positive to build on.

    Sorry I can't be of more help.

  • if that changes I'm continually working times out in my head like how long this will take and can I fit that in.

    I find it really helps to write this stuff down.

    If the appointment moves to 3pm then I work out when I need to leave in order to get there 15 mins ahead of schedule (to allow for delays) which is, say, 2pm, then I work out the time to get ready to leave (brush teeth, wash and check I'm fresh, put on appropriate layers of clothes for the weather etc) which is say 1.30pm then I know I need to have lunch before then so will schedule this at 12.30 so I have time to clean up afterwards then I know I need to start lunch at 12.

    This working back helps me get all the pre-requisites set, any alarms set I may need and puts my mind at rest so I can chill and just follow my plan. It takes 2 minutes to write it down and saves a load of stress.

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  • if that changes I'm continually working times out in my head like how long this will take and can I fit that in.

    I find it really helps to write this stuff down.

    If the appointment moves to 3pm then I work out when I need to leave in order to get there 15 mins ahead of schedule (to allow for delays) which is, say, 2pm, then I work out the time to get ready to leave (brush teeth, wash and check I'm fresh, put on appropriate layers of clothes for the weather etc) which is say 1.30pm then I know I need to have lunch before then so will schedule this at 12.30 so I have time to clean up afterwards then I know I need to start lunch at 12.

    This working back helps me get all the pre-requisites set, any alarms set I may need and puts my mind at rest so I can chill and just follow my plan. It takes 2 minutes to write it down and saves a load of stress.

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