Are most people here just using pm rather than using the forum ?

I just use the forum.

I have tried pms a couple times in the last year. Once to check someone was ok, which was a disaster, and once to chat with someone for a day or two. 

Yeah I understand and sometimes the pressure to interact or respond when probably most have may other things todo or don’t know what to say or want involved or many positive reasons too. Take care

Yeah I understand and sometimes the pressure to interact or respond when probably most have may other things todo or don’t know what to say or want involved or many positive reasons too. Take care