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I was wondering if the people with Asperger's who have managed to settle down, have kids, get married, or simply develop close friendships, could please explain how they managed to achieve these things; despite having severe social problems.

At 26 years old, I am none the wiser as to how to develop friendships, let alone forge relationships. I would love to have kids (a dream of mine since I was small), yet the practicalities of the matter scare me. However I have heard many stories of apparently successful relationships, even resulting in kids, where one of the partners has Asperger's, but how is this possible? What qualities and attributes facilitate the relationship?

Please share your experiences of where you met your partner, how the relationship developed, and how I could increase my chances of meeting someone. Are dating sites the only answer? I am involved in many activities, voluntary work, attend meetings, but have no friends.

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  • I am similar. I prefer what could be called romantic friendships ( as in having one close, intimate soul-mate) over a physical relationship. I would limit myself to warm hugs and holding hands because the thought of sex fills me with dread. I don't really experience sexual attraction; I am more drawn to the Platonic ideal: I value the beauty coming from within, a strong intellect andlove of learning. While appearance plays a part in my attraction, it is secondary to the person's inner self - I often find myself becoming attached to very intelligent and caring people.

    I identify as asexual, with a preference for women, however I am drawn to some men as well, but never sexually.

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  • I am similar. I prefer what could be called romantic friendships ( as in having one close, intimate soul-mate) over a physical relationship. I would limit myself to warm hugs and holding hands because the thought of sex fills me with dread. I don't really experience sexual attraction; I am more drawn to the Platonic ideal: I value the beauty coming from within, a strong intellect andlove of learning. While appearance plays a part in my attraction, it is secondary to the person's inner self - I often find myself becoming attached to very intelligent and caring people.

    I identify as asexual, with a preference for women, however I am drawn to some men as well, but never sexually.

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