Greeting & Farewell Etiquette - To kiss or not to kiss?

I’m a 54 year male, late diagnosed ASD and would welcome thoughts from forum members on the subject of greetings and farewells – to kiss or not to kiss?

This is something that I have long felt slightly awkward & unsure about, but have tended to go in for a nice squeezy hug and peck on the head or cheek with female friends (sometimes the same with male friends).

I have a limited number of friends, with perhaps five or six close friends with whom I share a high level of trust. My greetings and goodbyes with these individuals are typically sincere and meaningful, and they provide me with considerable comfort.

I would be interested to hear about the approaches others take in similar social situations. Currently, I am navigating a particular circumstance related to this topic, which is prompting this inquiry. I will provide additional details later once I have gathered some perspectives from this discussion.

So, what do you tend to do in such situations?

Parents
  • I've always tended to wait for the other person to initiate the action and then just gone along with it, no matter how awkward I felt about it. It's rare that I find it pleasant. What can you do, though? It's one of those areas where masking is probably the easier option. Let them just do it and get it over with; it's easier than trying to explain why you don't want to.

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  • I've always tended to wait for the other person to initiate the action and then just gone along with it, no matter how awkward I felt about it. It's rare that I find it pleasant. What can you do, though? It's one of those areas where masking is probably the easier option. Let them just do it and get it over with; it's easier than trying to explain why you don't want to.

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