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Feeling broken

190E(Taylor’s version)

So ive just finished my last ever shift wirh one of my favourite people I knew it was coming she told me weeks ago but it doesn’t stop it hurting I gave her a hug and said I had to leave so I didn’t cry

yeah I got in and Broke I need out of working with other people ive hurt when people have left before but never this much and I can’t do it over and over again 

  • in reply to Littlemissanxious

    I have her on what’s app but it’s still gunna be hard nkt seeing her almost everyday if at all because she will be busy with her horses and me with the shop and my Music 

  • Im so sorry to hear how much your hurting right now. I have been here before when my best friend left my work place, it was just awful and I left before I got upset. Could you keep in touch with them now that they have left?

    Its absolutely ok to feel upset, please take the next few days doing whatever you need too. Whether that's crying, watching your comfort show or whatever makes you feel safe. Its easy to say as an outsider but time will help, just take each day a step at a time. 

  • in reply to mrs.snooks

    I hope so too for someone who finds it hard to make friends to find a friend so loving so caring so funny and so random is so speical to me I knew all shift I was going to cry so I made my self keep it in till I got home

    but that goodbye hug I gave her almost broke me and I even told her im going to have to go before I cry and I don’t know if she even knows how much of a good Friend she is ro me becuase im the kind of person who doesn’t make work friends who are out of work friends 

    She’s going to work with horses so I got her a hobbie horse which she called horsey 

    injust hope her leaving can strengthen the friendship her boyfriend is a nice guy too and if I was invited to hang out with them i defo would 

    if she has one flaw she’s not a swiftie but hey she’s does show joy that I show joy and she’s said she wants to see my Tay Tay tattoo when I get it done (my first Tay Tay tattoo that is hehe)

  • Sorry to hear about your hurt. Take care of yourself.

    Why is saying goodbye so hard? So many reasons, aren't there? I hope that you stay in touch and that your friendship continues to grow. It is such a time of anxiety and uncertainty. I hope that life will be kind to you in this.

    x Mrs S

  • in reply to Autismman

    I have her on what’s app I kind of realised too I don’t know how she views me but I kind of think she was my best friend she was always there for advice and banter and she’s always supportive of me but at the same time will be real wirh me like when I said about the music buisness she was like ok but as long as you have a plan and when I told her the plan she was like thats really good 

    she also has an autistic brother too so it helped her relate to me(I so hope the family still shop with us becuase I’ll miss that lid dude too hes so awesome and an inspiration to all other kids if you ask me)

    I just wish I had made thr effort to connect with her outside of work :( I need to mabie work on the friendship and hope she’s wanting to do the same I just hope how I feel about it isnt one sided I don’t expect it to be like wirh her best friend(who also worked with isn and I miss her too they’re actually the first two people outside of home I unmasked too)

  • Hopefully you can still stay in touch with this person? They aren’t gone forever although it may feel like a huge change which can feel like a bit of a mountain.