• Replies 13 replies
  • Subscribers 85 subscribers
  • Views 915 views
  • Users 0 members are here
Options
Related
Hints and tips
  • To quote someone's message, first select/highlight the relevant text, and then use the Quote button that appears
  • To "mention" someone, type @ followed by the start of the forum name, and choose from the list; that person will get a notification of being mentioned

For the best

Mercury

I think that sexuality is no longer part of my life.  After a lifetime of exposure to explicit media and masturbation, the feeling has faded drastically.  I no longer feel any such libido in real life.  I see this as a good thing, my mind is free to pursue other more important things, and I'm too out of touch and unattractive anyway, but no hard feelings there.

Parents

  • I’m not sure you can judge your own attractiveness unless you know you are not attracted to yourself? If it were possible?. A friend of mine doesn’t want kids, doesn’t want to live with his partner and doesn’t want her around all the time but still wants a relationship, I think he’s personally missing the give and take of a relationship and wishes for absolutes which do not exist. 

Reply

  • I’m not sure you can judge your own attractiveness unless you know you are not attracted to yourself? If it were possible?. A friend of mine doesn’t want kids, doesn’t want to live with his partner and doesn’t want her around all the time but still wants a relationship, I think he’s personally missing the give and take of a relationship and wishes for absolutes which do not exist. 

Children
  • in reply to Autismman

    It's a thing now, people wanting a long term relationship but not wanting to live together, I think theres to much pressure to live together too quickly. When I got together with my ex after six months people were asking when we were going to move in together and when we said we weren't they asked if we were splitting up or if we were wating until we were married! Thats a hell of a lot pressure and expectation, we both liked our own space. I don't see it as wishing for absolutes or lacking the give and take, for me most relationship have had to much give and take, I give and they take, what yours is mine and whats mine stays mine. Yeah I'm cynical, or am I just experienced?

  • in reply to Autismman

    After decades with myself I want a divorce Sweat smile.

    Also I'm maybe too self concerned to care for anyone else long term.