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I think that sexuality is no longer part of my life.  After a lifetime of exposure to explicit media and masturbation, the feeling has faded drastically.  I no longer feel any such libido in real life.  I see this as a good thing, my mind is free to pursue other more important things, and I'm too out of touch and unattractive anyway, but no hard feelings there.

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  • To add, I'm mid 30s and I just don't see myself as the type others would find all that worthwhile or pleasing.  The idea of having friendship or romance is antithetical to my nature.  That's ok as I prefer not to stand out anyway.  Any acquaintance I manage to make soon evaporates.

  • There's always someone who will find you attractive, but whether you would find them attractive is another matter entirely. I sort of know what you mean about ideas of friendship and romance being antithetical, I've had loads of relationships that have crashed and burned, often badly. I've still no real idea of what romance is and its one of those things that when you ask people can't tell you, apparently it's ore of a feeling...another one I don't have.

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  • There's always someone who will find you attractive, but whether you would find them attractive is another matter entirely. I sort of know what you mean about ideas of friendship and romance being antithetical, I've had loads of relationships that have crashed and burned, often badly. I've still no real idea of what romance is and its one of those things that when you ask people can't tell you, apparently it's ore of a feeling...another one I don't have.

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