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Avoidant personality disorder VS Autism

Autismman

Someone recently posted a link on another discussion regarding avoidant personality disorder and this got me thinking about myself and my own diagnosis of autism. I am on a quest for clarity and information to help benefit my own situation so my question is how many of you diagnosed with autism can also relate to the symptoms of this particular personality disorder? And if not why so? 


Avoidant personality disorder symptoms 

1.  Avoids occupational activities that involve significant interpersonal contact because of fears of criticism, disapproval, or rejection.

2.  Is unwilling to get involved with people unless certain of being liked.

3.  Shows restraint within intimate relationships because of the fear of being shamed or ridiculed.

4.  Is preoccupied with being criticized or rejected in social situations.

5.  Is inhibited in new interpersonal situations because of feelings of inadequacy.

6.  Views self as socially inept, personally unappealing, or inferior to others.

7.  Is unusually reluctant to take personal risks or to engage in any new activities because they may prove embarrassing

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  • Surely a lot of this is a reaction to being badly bullied, rejected and humiliated, if you've experienced these things then why would you not be afraid and avoidant? We learn not to stick our fingers in the fire because we get burnt, why should we not have the same reaction to being burnt by others cruelty? Why should we trust when that trust has been so badly abused? I'm not saying that social anxiety and AVPD aren't a problem, but a bit more understanding of why people become like this is needed and the causes addressed.

  • in reply to TheCatWoman

    I would imagine bullying plays a huge part in the emergence of personality disorders for some people. Some peoples experience might be on the more extreme side which causes them trauma and certain negative coping skills were gained in order to feel safe and secure again, ultimately I expect it’s about survival and protection of the ego at all costs. 

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  • in reply to TheCatWoman

    I would imagine bullying plays a huge part in the emergence of personality disorders for some people. Some peoples experience might be on the more extreme side which causes them trauma and certain negative coping skills were gained in order to feel safe and secure again, ultimately I expect it’s about survival and protection of the ego at all costs. 

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