Avoidant personality disorder VS Autism

Someone recently posted a link on another discussion regarding avoidant personality disorder and this got me thinking about myself and my own diagnosis of autism. I am on a quest for clarity and information to help benefit my own situation so my question is how many of you diagnosed with autism can also relate to the symptoms of this particular personality disorder? And if not why so? 


Avoidant personality disorder symptoms 

1.  Avoids occupational activities that involve significant interpersonal contact because of fears of criticism, disapproval, or rejection.

2.  Is unwilling to get involved with people unless certain of being liked.

3.  Shows restraint within intimate relationships because of the fear of being shamed or ridiculed.

4.  Is preoccupied with being criticized or rejected in social situations.

5.  Is inhibited in new interpersonal situations because of feelings of inadequacy.

6.  Views self as socially inept, personally unappealing, or inferior to others.

7.  Is unusually reluctant to take personal risks or to engage in any new activities because they may prove embarrassing

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  • Possibly if I went to the Gp, I think it could be helpful. It doesn’t fit me to the T but I can really empathise with the struggles listed. It’s the feeling of inadequacy and feeling Inferior to others, like I’m different, not like them. Although I can’t say I have much want for the social aspects of it in the first place, I don’t avoid these things out of fear or judgement just that I don’t see the point in socialising anyway. I have a few friends but that’s always a one on one interaction so no real stress there. And I am not too aware of a need to be liked either. Perhaps I am just autistic but I can’t shake this imposter syndrome.