How to escape noise advice please?!

Hi

I am super sensitive to a lot of things, but noise is my biggest problem as it stops me being able to sleep or focus on work - or both. Summer is the worst time as people are always outside making noise and I cannot escape them.  It's the same at work as my office is above a car park so there are always car engines and people shouting and playing their music.  I feel like I have nowhere I can go to escape and it is making me more and more anxious and desperate.  The more sleep-deprived I become, the more terrible everything feels and I do often find myself wondering about what a way out would be.  I cannot move away and live in the wilderness and I have to work to earn money.  All the headphones I try don't really seem very effective at blocking noise - especially low rumbling noises like bass music and car engines and repetitive noises like kids bouncing footballs on concrete.  It's not fair on the people I live and work with since they cannot understand why I am so crazy and grumpy all the time.  I need to find a solution and a way to get some sleep that does not involve medication or anything drastic.  Please can any of you recommend ear plugs or headphones that will block out the low vibrations and noise and let me get some sleep?  

Thank you for any guidance.  

K x

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  • Thank you so much everyone for your thoughtful and helpful suggestions.  I think I will try them all if I can as I really am at my wits end at the moment and I know I made last night very unhappy for my family by my responses to our noisy neighbours.  I think you are all correct in that I will need some kind of physical defence against the sound, but probably also some kind of emotional retraining so I can try to accept or at least reduce my anxious responses. I don't have any experience with hypnotherapy, but maybe some kind of refocussing would help.  I don't want to resort to sleeping pills or anything similar.  Thank you for all your help and support, I will read through all your comments carefully and look into what I can buy and try.  All the best to you all, K xxxx

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  • Thank you so much everyone for your thoughtful and helpful suggestions.  I think I will try them all if I can as I really am at my wits end at the moment and I know I made last night very unhappy for my family by my responses to our noisy neighbours.  I think you are all correct in that I will need some kind of physical defence against the sound, but probably also some kind of emotional retraining so I can try to accept or at least reduce my anxious responses. I don't have any experience with hypnotherapy, but maybe some kind of refocussing would help.  I don't want to resort to sleeping pills or anything similar.  Thank you for all your help and support, I will read through all your comments carefully and look into what I can buy and try.  All the best to you all, K xxxx

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