Autistic adults

I've often wondered if being diagnosed later in life has any bearing on how we deal with being autistic? I mean we've had a life before diagnosis and I wonder how being diagnosed later in life affects how we see past struggles. Are we more likely to feel that we're somehow imposters as another poster commented?

I just tried looking for a list of symptoms and from what I could find there only seems to be very simple lists of common symptoms, like avoiding eye contact. I think there must be others, a much longer list that professionals refer to when making a diagnosis. I got a load of AI generated generic stuff when I searched, but that could well be due to my lack of computer skills. Can anyone find a fuller list and post it? I think it would be useful, especially the less common things like hyper-mobility and gut disorders, although gut disorders do seem to be quite common.

I thin it would be good and helpful especially for us latelings to be able to see what other symptoms there are, that aren't so common.

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  • Ohh thanks Iain thats a good one. 

    I'm actually quite good at multi tasking, but then I had to be having two under fives and managing a house.

    I do find it hard, next to impssible to set goals, I've never been afflicted with an ambition in my life and when people talk about goal setting my brain glazes over. Everything I've done and I've done a lot of different things has sort of come along organically, leading me to ask 'why set goals and be goal orrientated?'

    I just went to try and open another window using that web address and Ai decided I wanted something totally different and gave this site among others but not the one I asked for, this is deeply annoying!

    I do prefer having a set role, put me in a salon and I'm a whole different person, put me behind a shop counter and I manage fine, put me in a pub or resaurant without a role and I don't quite know what to do.