How do you steer your ship? (Autonomy discussion with an optimistic twist)

Hi all,

been living with family for the last two months or so, and tensions have skyrocketed to the point that I spent my Fourth of July alone in my car. So, this isn’t a pity party, but rather a boost of positivity. I believe in myself, I like where I’m going, and I want to hear how yall keep yourselves neurodivergent, confident, and self assured in the face of resistance.

here are some ways I do:

1. Listen to my comedy podcasts and shows that my family disapproves of. Currently, I’m a big fan of Dropout Gamechanger and some other comedians.

2. Staying kind and patient: the vibes are BAD so I like to grin and bear it without letting them tip me over. I’ll take advice, but only if I keep my dignity.

3. Hammock time: I have a hammock strung up on our patio where nobody else sits. It’s very quiet and peaceful

4. Keeping self improvement private: I don’t like having my metric be the moods of other people, so I work in myself using my own standards. Today, I made a diet plan for the next few days. Tomorrow, I’ll focus on budgeting and finance. I’ve already picked up several shifts for next week so I’m one step closer to financial independence!

stay chill, and lots and lots of love,

Max smiling face with hearts