Anyone finds themselves incredibly naive?

I am 26 and I feel very naive to the things around me. I feel as if now I am slowly realising properly that a world exists outside of my own head. It feels embarassing to realise this, and scary to admit that I don't understand basic things that people around me do. Budgeting and financing, managing expectations, understanding myself in a balanced way, managing responsibilities well. I'm now slowly trying to catch up, but it's difficult because I really feel as if I am really behind my peers. 

Something that is helping and it is hard, but to trust that some of those around me that I am well with won't judge me if I ask simple questions, and try to take my time to process these, instead of trying to force myself to grow up quickly on my own, something that I have been used to doing for years.

Does anyone else feel this sense of naivety?

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  • I'm certainly not naive anymore,ever since I woke up to the evils of the real world,not the ideal one I had in mind being unaware of how the systems worked, politics, propaganda,human nature,envy and jealousy,my God,I'm much wiser and calmer now and I refuse to be naive anymore,we have to keep our eyes open society isn't friendly to us neurodiverse people, it's even worse when you're conventionally attractive 

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  • I'm certainly not naive anymore,ever since I woke up to the evils of the real world,not the ideal one I had in mind being unaware of how the systems worked, politics, propaganda,human nature,envy and jealousy,my God,I'm much wiser and calmer now and I refuse to be naive anymore,we have to keep our eyes open society isn't friendly to us neurodiverse people, it's even worse when you're conventionally attractive 

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