hi everyone, new community member here.
I would like some advice from any people in the community who have had some success with this issue.
My wife of 19 years has said she wants to leave me. Citing the usual reasons of me showing little intimacy to her and seldom wanting to do anything social related.
we have been here before, about 10 years ago. Then,as an ASD1, and after much practice, i got really quite good at understanding the needs and expectations of neurotypical females.
and we had a very fulfilling and rewarding relationship.
Only in the last 2-3 years, my efforts reduced, partly complacency, partly a bit of laziness i suppose.
My question to the community, or anyone who has had a successful formulae in these matters?
i really love my wife and will do anything to keep her, so what do people do to constantly remind themselves of the constant need to keep the considerable efforts up, ALWAYS, and not revert back?
