Challenges of volunteering

Recently I decided to start volunteering again but it does have its challenges.  First, the place will have a group of staff and volunteers who have been there for longer and know each other, have a particular workflow, good chemistry and team communication.  I am effectively an outsider and an unknown quantity, especially if there is no formal induction or introduction to my colleagues.  Also I've learned with the benefit of hindsight that it's better to do only a few hours at a time, I did a full day stint a few days a week before and faced burnout, loneliness and boredom.  Also frustrating is how hard it is to relate to other staff and volunteers when they don't engage me in conversation, ask my name and small talk, or they do but then move on or just ask me superficial yes/no questions, not to mention sometimes one or two can be obnoxious in showing me how things are supposed to be done and somewhat show irritation with me.

But despite all that I still do it, for something to put on my CV, to leave the house, to challenge my limits and perhaps help out in some way.

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  • I started volunteering with Crisis a couple months ago and feel much the same as you. Lots of it may just be me internalising stuff, such as feeling as if I should be talking more, better with eye contact or more smiley but idk. I've informed them that I may be autistic but I still sense I'm being judged for my behaviour.

    It didn't help that the first 4 times I went there were completely new people each time, the constant change really affected me. Last week I turned up and the shop was shut lol nothing to do with me but =/

    I'm going to see about volunteering with an autism organisation next. Hoping things improve for you!

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  • I started volunteering with Crisis a couple months ago and feel much the same as you. Lots of it may just be me internalising stuff, such as feeling as if I should be talking more, better with eye contact or more smiley but idk. I've informed them that I may be autistic but I still sense I'm being judged for my behaviour.

    It didn't help that the first 4 times I went there were completely new people each time, the constant change really affected me. Last week I turned up and the shop was shut lol nothing to do with me but =/

    I'm going to see about volunteering with an autism organisation next. Hoping things improve for you!

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