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Asexual to Bi/demisexual

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I never really adhered to heterosexual norms, I don't identify with LGBT either, I don't ever intend to have kids or conventional marriage, and I always valued personality and intelligence, interests, curiousity, kindness and introspection above physical attraction.

Though I still enjoy physical aspects from an aesthetic perspective and imagination I hold a small yearning for real, tangible emotional connection.

If there were networks or opportunities where this could be explored that would still seem too good to be true.

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  • I'm a can't be bothered, luckily being older and not meeting many people, its not something that comes up in conversation very often and I don't get looked at any more or have any offers either. To be honest it's such a massive relief, one of the things I like about here is that I often don't know what gender someone is, so I just relate person to person which is I think it should be anyway. Why should we have to focus and tip toe around someones gender and orientation? It only occurs to me to think about those things if I'm interested in someone.

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  • I'm a can't be bothered, luckily being older and not meeting many people, its not something that comes up in conversation very often and I don't get looked at any more or have any offers either. To be honest it's such a massive relief, one of the things I like about here is that I often don't know what gender someone is, so I just relate person to person which is I think it should be anyway. Why should we have to focus and tip toe around someones gender and orientation? It only occurs to me to think about those things if I'm interested in someone.

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