I never really adhered to heterosexual norms, I don't identify with LGBT either, I don't ever intend to have kids or conventional marriage, and I always valued personality and intelligence, interests, curiousity, kindness and introspection above physical attraction.
Though I still enjoy physical aspects from an aesthetic perspective and imagination I hold a small yearning for real, tangible emotional connection.
If there were networks or opportunities where this could be explored that would still seem too good to be true.