Update on the situation I’m going through it’s my friends dads funeral on Friday and I’m really stressing out over it. I have no idea what to wear I remember my mums funeral we all dressed in bright colours no black because she always hated the idea of people wearing black at her funeral she wanted bright happy colours. My friend not helping me and I don’t want to wear anything disrespectful he just says smart clothes but hasn’t said what colour. I’m also in the funeral car with him and his family I don’t understand why as I didn’t really know his dad but he said he wants me in the car with him. I’m anxious because I’ll be with his family and I’ve tried asking him if it’s possible for me to sit down with them before the funeral but he doesn’t think it’s possible as there a lot going on. Really stressed hate being around strangers and I’ve got to put a brave face on and I hope I can do that.