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Fear of males anxiety sky high

Wolf

After what happened to me i now have a fear of males.

people think i will get over it i won't 

Now i panic  male support workers are a no go  male nurses are a no go same with police etc 

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  • I spent so many years campaigning for women who'd been sexually assaulted or raped to be seen by female staff only, I thought we'd won that argument years ago and that hospitals, police and other service had got the message, but it seems that another victory snatched away. Is it done in the name of equality in the workplace, underfunding or what? Don't people realise that the feelings of the victim should come first, not the professional? Trying to force a male professional onto a traumatised victim is abusing them all over again? Then they wonder why so many sex crimes and incidents of DV are unreported, really, is it that hard to understand?

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  • I spent so many years campaigning for women who'd been sexually assaulted or raped to be seen by female staff only, I thought we'd won that argument years ago and that hospitals, police and other service had got the message, but it seems that another victory snatched away. Is it done in the name of equality in the workplace, underfunding or what? Don't people realise that the feelings of the victim should come first, not the professional? Trying to force a male professional onto a traumatised victim is abusing them all over again? Then they wonder why so many sex crimes and incidents of DV are unreported, really, is it that hard to understand?

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