Fear of males anxiety sky high

If you've had a traumatic experience then it's very hard not to associate certain things with the trauma, in your case, men, you may rationally know its not right, but everything else is screaming at you and taking you back to the trauma and warning you that these people are a risk. It's a perfectly normal reaction to a trauma, nobody would tell you stick your fingers in a fire after you'd got badly burned, so why is this normal reaction seen as wrong? Objectively speaking it maybe mistaken as not all men are bad, but whilst recovering from trauma you need to be given the space to emotionally come to terms with things and where men fit into your world. If you feel safe with women and wish only to be treated by them, then that should be OK. It should also be OK for you to take a chaperone of your choice to any meeting that has to be with men for as long as you feel it's needed.

If you've had a traumatic experience then it's very hard not to associate certain things with the trauma, in your case, men, you may rationally know its not right, but everything else is screaming at you and taking you back to the trauma and warning you that these people are a risk. It's a perfectly normal reaction to a trauma, nobody would tell you stick your fingers in a fire after you'd got badly burned, so why is this normal reaction seen as wrong? Objectively speaking it maybe mistaken as not all men are bad, but whilst recovering from trauma you need to be given the space to emotionally come to terms with things and where men fit into your world. If you feel safe with women and wish only to be treated by them, then that should be OK. It should also be OK for you to take a chaperone of your choice to any meeting that has to be with men for as long as you feel it's needed.

Well what support workers are telling me is that not all men are bad and you will over come the traumatic. I'm like to my self no I won't they already had pre warnings from me and my mum both saying  i don't want any males doing my support of the fear of been touched and now that has happened.   now there lying saying  they don't know about my preferences