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She promised to write me about it but didn't

hypercolius

So last week my girlfriend surprised me by saying she wanted to book a trip with me. Said she'd look it up that evening. 

Then, she vanished for the weekend. She did tell me beforehand, but it was sudden. 

She came back on Monday. Said she wanted to bake me a cake for my birthday (this week) and called me today to discuss my project. 

I asked her about plans on Tuesday 

She said she'd do it that evening, said she'll set a reminder. 

I told her we could do it when she came over. 

She said she'd still do it that evening. 

She was sweet the whole day, but I did message her in the evening. After promising to make me my favourite snack for my birthday, I asked if we should leave that for the trip. 

She didn't respond. 

And didn't write me about anything. 

I'm really upset, and have no clue what this means. Yes, I'm autistic. 

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  • Yeh I don't really like people. In my experience it's all about them and what they want and need not about what others might possibly need. That's why I don't have a girlfriend I guess. Because it so happens that all the females I met were only interested in themselves and what they perceived that they want or need. It's all take take take and no give back. So until I find a female that gives back and doesn't just take then I will remain happily single. I'm sure there are nice women out there I just haven't met them yet haha. 

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  • Yeh I don't really like people. In my experience it's all about them and what they want and need not about what others might possibly need. That's why I don't have a girlfriend I guess. Because it so happens that all the females I met were only interested in themselves and what they perceived that they want or need. It's all take take take and no give back. So until I find a female that gives back and doesn't just take then I will remain happily single. I'm sure there are nice women out there I just haven't met them yet haha. 

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