Rant about lack of autism support and social groups

Honestly just felt like a bit of a vent. I have recently moved to a new area and because it’s a more central location I wanted to try and look for some social groups. I struggle quite a bit with loneliness and making friends. 

So, I did a bit of googling and searched apps like meetup to see if there were any support groups/social groups aimed at autistic adults. Basically just a safe space for neurodivergent folk to socialise and potentially make friends. 

However, I can’t find anything apart that fits this category. This really surprised me as I live in a city now so you would think there would be at least one group like this. I found a group that was for autistic people to socialise every week at a different pub. I loved the sound of this but it looks like there hasn’t been any meetings in at least a year.

What frustrated me even more is that there was lots of organisations offering support groups and workshops for parents of autistic children an carers. I agree that these groups are needed and are a great sense of community for carers and parents. But, I find it disappointing that these organisations aren’t able to offer the same for autistic adults.

I have even considered if I could start my own. However, I would have no idea how to go about this but I could do some research as I think a group like this in such a big city would be great.

For now I’m going to look at other social groups like book club or maybe even give crafting a go despite my lack of skill in this area.

Rant over it just really annoyed me lol 

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  • I mean I share you frustration. I tried joining a local group set up for people with autism and learning disabilities and frankly it was very disapointing. Then I found a group in a near by city spicificly for people with aspergers but it was inactive online so I asumed it had shut down. It hadn't it was just very small and they were very bad at using the internet. I'd say do some casing of any groups you think are inactive.

    Also with regards to starting a group, the aspergers group I go to has a friendly councilor who books out a free room for them every month in the council building. Maybe speak to your councilor?

    Frankly its clear most autism charaties don't give a dam about high functioning autistic adults ... so we'll just have to make absolute nusences of our selves till they do.

  • Thanks for the advice these are really useful tips !! 

    The group I found online seems really good. It’s in the city centre which is a half hour walk from my house. It takes place weekly which would be great for me being more social. It also takes place in a pub which is a nice informal setting. It has been inactive online for ages so I’m going to do some more digging and see if it’s taking place.

    I‘m also going to add finding out my local councillor near me and enquire about starting a group. I also know some small independent bookshops that hold small events so I might reach out to them as well. 

  • even if your local group is inactive now its worth chasing up the old orgoniser to ask for advice on starting your own.

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