Employment (Buckland Review)

It is a relief to finally get diagnosed but I am yet to see the benefits, especially in the employment market.  I find it challenging to find and retain work.  I've been bullied and exploited by management.  I been cast out (disposed of) for having the nerve to raise a grievance.  It has impacted my mental health.  I suffered from depression and anxiety but my experience in the workplace has made my condition worse.  Management and HR seem to always stick together to the point of gaslighting the vulnerable (cover up/protecting the organisation's reputation).  I am relieved and saddened to hear so many autistic people being treated this way.  I've heard that less than 10% of autistic people are in work.  I've recently written to my local MP for his response.  I'd like to chat to others who have had similar life experiences.  

 

Parents
  • Oh, I can't tell you the trauma I suffered over fifteen years of employment. It destroyed me, my personality, my self worth, my identity. I lost EVERYTHING about myself from workplace bullying, burnout and breakdowns. For what? Money, house and a car. It's made me realise money DOES NOT make you happy, not if you have to endure that much suffering to get it. I really hope things change, because right now the thought of going back into employment terrifies me. 

Reply
  • Oh, I can't tell you the trauma I suffered over fifteen years of employment. It destroyed me, my personality, my self worth, my identity. I lost EVERYTHING about myself from workplace bullying, burnout and breakdowns. For what? Money, house and a car. It's made me realise money DOES NOT make you happy, not if you have to endure that much suffering to get it. I really hope things change, because right now the thought of going back into employment terrifies me. 

Children
  • Thank you for your message.  I'm sorry to hear what happened to you.  Yes, it does make you terrified about re-entering the employment market.  I think bullying of autistic vulnerable adults in the workplace needs to be addressed whether in the media and/or politically.  I'm getting on my soap box.