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.....and yet, no one, is allowed?.......to say ouwt? This NASmember feels suppressed, and vulnerable.

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Surely.....sometimes.....it is ok to make a "dry" statement of observation?  No harm to anyone......and no meaning, unless you read this at the time of posting....and simply LOOK.

DISAMBIGUATION - This post is not a trap, nor a snare, nor a cheek, nor misinterpretable as 'somehow' mean......it is merely a fair autistic observation.....at this time?  Nes Pas ?

Is this allowed to stand?

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  • You can't say anything here now for fear of someone being upset, feeling triggered or being offended.

    Well in a free society they have the right to be offended.

    So long as no laws or explicit rules are broken then say what you want to say.

    I refuse to wrap myself up in cotton wool to avoid situations where someone chooses to throw the toys out the pram over something. I have the right to express myself and they have the right to be offended or not. They will not define how I think, act and express myself.

    Unknown said:
    Nes Pas ?

    Liberté, égalité, fraternité

  • in reply to Iain
    Iain said:
    You can't say anything here now for fear of someone being upset, feeling triggered or being offended.

    That might well be true, now, Iain (the evidence abounds) - but the jury is still out?

    I have always tried hard to avoid / defuse controversy here ..... I just want people in this space to be able to "chat" like autistic people WANT to, but rarely find a space - to do so - autistically!  That type of "free" chat will INEVITABLY result in some friction and discord at times, due to our communication difficulties, differential capabilities of insight,  and our own personal peccadilloes / limitations / strengths.  However, if matters are managed appropriately (by the appropriate authorities) and WITH TRANSPARENCY, then further "expressions of displeasure" (ie "deleted user" / "hibernating" / "the disappeared") are less likely to occur here.

    We all know and understand the rules.....and MOST of us don't wish to break them / bend / challenge them.....they seem like fair and reasonable rules.......IF they are enforced equally, to all, AND with transparency.

    Like you say;

    Iain said:
    Liberté, égalité, fraternité

    et justicer et empartialité, mais pas blondeur, s'il vous plait!

    [Apologies to any French speakers!]

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  • in reply to Iain
    Iain said:
    You can't say anything here now for fear of someone being upset, feeling triggered or being offended.

    That might well be true, now, Iain (the evidence abounds) - but the jury is still out?

    I have always tried hard to avoid / defuse controversy here ..... I just want people in this space to be able to "chat" like autistic people WANT to, but rarely find a space - to do so - autistically!  That type of "free" chat will INEVITABLY result in some friction and discord at times, due to our communication difficulties, differential capabilities of insight,  and our own personal peccadilloes / limitations / strengths.  However, if matters are managed appropriately (by the appropriate authorities) and WITH TRANSPARENCY, then further "expressions of displeasure" (ie "deleted user" / "hibernating" / "the disappeared") are less likely to occur here.

    We all know and understand the rules.....and MOST of us don't wish to break them / bend / challenge them.....they seem like fair and reasonable rules.......IF they are enforced equally, to all, AND with transparency.

    Like you say;

    Iain said:
    Liberté, égalité, fraternité

    et justicer et empartialité, mais pas blondeur, s'il vous plait!

    [Apologies to any French speakers!]

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