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Alternative to sunflower lanyard

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Hi all. 

I've been wondering for a while now but haven't come across anything more subtle, than the sunflower lanyard. 

I'd rather have something more low key which alerts staff or security of additional needs or understanding, that the now universally used sunflower lanyard. 

Is anyone aware of another way which I can subtly inform of my autism? 

I really don't want the world to know, stand out in a crowd, excuses or sympathy from others.

It's quite awkward having to try and find a worker and explain to this stranger that I may need some support.

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  • Five years ago you could get a plastic "credit card" for 99p that informs people that you have ASD, (It was created for use in police interactions) and I got two (just incase I lost one).

    I've never actually needed to use it in a real life situation (after 60 years undiagnosed, I can pass quite easily as NT in most situations) but it is quite nice to have it in my wallet. 

    I personally find my own (particualrly, but since I've become aware and participated here a lot, also other people's) Autism quite personally annoying at times, so I have more sympathy for N.T. irritations or amusement at my little quirks, than I used to. 

    After all, I'm the "Uncompromising diversity" that has just been inflicted on them this particular day... It's improtant to try and give them the space and abilty to be nice about things, as well as offering firm opposition when they take it too far, and start excluiding you from things or treating you like you have nothing to contribute. Once they understand that I like to be asked to social events almost as much as I like to not actually participate in a lot of social things it gets easier to find a balance that suits everyone.

    And Ive eanred a life lesson form President Trump (woudl you belive) recently that seems to be working really well right now. 

    Just "walk away" from disrespectful people/situations.

    Don't argue, don't try to "win", just walk away. 

  • in reply to I Sperg
    I Sperg said:
    Five years ago you could get a plastic "credit card" for 99p that informs people that you have ASD, (It was created for use in police interactions) and I got two (just incase I lost one).

    For the purpose of helping with potential interactions with the police, I suggest getting a vulnerability identification card (eg a Pegasus or Autism Alert Card) that is issued / used / recognised by your local police force.

    Some of these include you being registered by the scheme, and given a unique reference number that can be quoted, for example, at the beginning of a phone call. This enables them to quickly look you up without you needing to explain any further personal information whilst in the midst of what could be a very stressful situation.

    For example, the Pegasus scheme (used by several forces) includes:

    ”You’ll be issued with a card and a personal identification number (PIN) and if you need to call us, say 'Pegasus', tell us your PIN and we’ll access your details right away, which will save you time.

    You can also show your card to a police officer, member of police staff or other emergency services staff if you need assistance in person and they’ll know you may need extra help and support.”

    Such cards are available free of charge. I have one, and feel very reassured by knowing that I can present it, if and when I ever need to.

    Links to recognised schemes for different police forces are available here:

    Alert Card Schemes - National Police Autism Association

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  • in reply to I Sperg
    I Sperg said:
    Five years ago you could get a plastic "credit card" for 99p that informs people that you have ASD, (It was created for use in police interactions) and I got two (just incase I lost one).

    For the purpose of helping with potential interactions with the police, I suggest getting a vulnerability identification card (eg a Pegasus or Autism Alert Card) that is issued / used / recognised by your local police force.

    Some of these include you being registered by the scheme, and given a unique reference number that can be quoted, for example, at the beginning of a phone call. This enables them to quickly look you up without you needing to explain any further personal information whilst in the midst of what could be a very stressful situation.

    For example, the Pegasus scheme (used by several forces) includes:

    ”You’ll be issued with a card and a personal identification number (PIN) and if you need to call us, say 'Pegasus', tell us your PIN and we’ll access your details right away, which will save you time.

    You can also show your card to a police officer, member of police staff or other emergency services staff if you need assistance in person and they’ll know you may need extra help and support.”

    Such cards are available free of charge. I have one, and feel very reassured by knowing that I can present it, if and when I ever need to.

    Links to recognised schemes for different police forces are available here:

    Alert Card Schemes - National Police Autism Association

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