Autism and only children

I'm an only child and was the typical "lonely only", i only ever played wit one child before I went to school, where I was overwhelmed, obviously. But I wonder how being an only child affects autism? I think quite a few of things I really struggle with are made worse by being an only child, like my almost total lack of competitiveness, did I not learn competition because there was no one to compete with? I have an intellectual understanding of competitiveness, but it's not something I really feel, I'm far more likely to just walk away from competitive situations, I rarely have any sense of achievement either, more a feeling of 'oh well thats that then'. I think I'm also very highly affected by noise and other distractions, I know others are too.

It would be really good if there are any other only children here who are autistic?

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    • I have a sibling but we didn’t share anything in common so much of my time at home was spent alone. In fact, I used to have fleeting thoughts about what it would be like to have a sister or brother, and then remind myself that it mightn’t be any different and that I might still be playing alone. I am quite a competitive person but I suspect that trait came from trying to emulate a competitive father rather than my sister. Though who knows what underlying psychological dynamic was playing out subconsciously.  I know a competitive person who has three siblings. Two were highly competitive cross country runners, but one sibling is a couch potato and a keeper of the peace in the family. I wonder if there is any correlation between competitiveness and personality. 
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    • I have a sibling but we didn’t share anything in common so much of my time at home was spent alone. In fact, I used to have fleeting thoughts about what it would be like to have a sister or brother, and then remind myself that it mightn’t be any different and that I might still be playing alone. I am quite a competitive person but I suspect that trait came from trying to emulate a competitive father rather than my sister. Though who knows what underlying psychological dynamic was playing out subconsciously.  I know a competitive person who has three siblings. Two were highly competitive cross country runners, but one sibling is a couch potato and a keeper of the peace in the family. I wonder if there is any correlation between competitiveness and personality. 
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