Unloveable

I know I'm unloveable

You don't have to tell me

And if I seem a little strange

Well, that's because I am

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  • I feel that way, but I’m sure my cat disagrees.

  • I’m sure my cat disagrees.

    Getting a pet is a pretty surefire way of finding something to love you - especially a dog.

    Cats can be a bit less predictable but it varies with the individual.

    When it comes to relationships with people then you have to learn how to communicate and interact and there is a lot of giving of yourself to the shared thing that is the  "couple" - something I think a lot of autists really struggle with.

    You have to weigh up whether the benefit of it is worth the cost to you at least in terms of energy - a lot of us really don't have what it takes to sustain that sort of commitment.

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  • I’m sure my cat disagrees.

    Getting a pet is a pretty surefire way of finding something to love you - especially a dog.

    Cats can be a bit less predictable but it varies with the individual.

    When it comes to relationships with people then you have to learn how to communicate and interact and there is a lot of giving of yourself to the shared thing that is the  "couple" - something I think a lot of autists really struggle with.

    You have to weigh up whether the benefit of it is worth the cost to you at least in terms of energy - a lot of us really don't have what it takes to sustain that sort of commitment.

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