What does 'theory of mind' mean to you; and how do you improve it as an Autistic person?

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Parents Reply
  • I can understand others quite well at least I can intellectually and not always emotionally regardless of thier neurological status. I just suffer from foot in mouth disease and do things like naming the games I see others playing which rarely wins friends when I call out thier behaviour. I often say very little because I'm afraid of putting my foot in it and come across as aloof, it's a no win situation.

Children
  • It is a bit Iain, it can be hard to find something to talk about if someones really focussed on a mind game. Sometimes I might be in a position where I'm a captive audience, like on a train, or I'm caught between other people, there are a lot of people who get really rude or aggressive when you try and change the subject too. Knowing that a person is playing a game can help me moderate my responses, but often I will only realise a little later that there is a game and what the game is, some people can be very subtle with thier mind games and it's not until much later that I realise I've been sucked in.

  • I often say very little because I'm afraid of putting my foot in it and come across as aloof, it's a no win situation.

    You can spot when people are playing games and from experience you know that talking about it leads to bad things, so you know what to avoid.

    I would have thought that talking about anything else would help you avoid these pitfalls - is that me being too simplistic?