Being on the spectrum is making me undateable

Does it matter? Not everyone needs to date or be in a relationship.

There's a whole neurotypical/heteronormative/programmed way of thinking that we are somehow unfulfilled unless we have XYZ.  We don't have to date, we don't have to have a partner, marry, have kids or anything else.  It's fine to be who you are (as long as you're not hurting anyone else imo).
PS. The typo in Anonymous is driving me nuts.

You don't get lonely?

Everyone gets lonely, whether they are in a relationship or not.

I'll pick the latter - thanks for the advice, sincerely

Anomynous said:

What did I do to deserve this?

I'm not sure what you mean as this can read 2 ways - one is "why pick on me" and the other is "thanks for the advice".

If you want an answer then let me know but I'll leave you in peace otherwise.

What did I do to deserve this?

I would recommend getting a trained therapist with experience of dealing with autistic clients. It isn't cheap (starting at about £50/hr) but the benefits were so worth it for me.

In some way the fact you have to pay for it makes you take it more seriously and work harder at it so the results are better.

I would recommend getting a trained therapist with experience of dealing with autistic clients. It isn't cheap (starting at about £50/hr) but the benefits were so worth it for me.

In some way the fact you have to pay for it makes you take it more seriously and work harder at it so the results are better.

I'll pick the latter - thanks for the advice, sincerely

Anomynous said:

What did I do to deserve this?

I'm not sure what you mean as this can read 2 ways - one is "why pick on me" and the other is "thanks for the advice".

If you want an answer then let me know but I'll leave you in peace otherwise.

What did I do to deserve this?