I had an unfortunate encounter with a dog off a lead this afternoon, how should I have responded?

Hello,

I was out for a walk in the park this afternoon. I do a walk almost every day in this park, to try and loose weight. I suffer from anxiety and depression, and so am feeling on edge most of the time, but this afternoon was feeling more on edge than usual.

A dog which wasn't on a lead came up to me barking. I was fearful it might bite me. I screamed at the dog 'down' out of fear whilst walking backwards. This happened before at it hasn't usually bothered me. But this time the distance between the owner and where the dog was, was much larger than usual as this is what caught me by surprise. This further agitated my anxiety.

I then screamed at the owner: 'you really should keep it on a lead, it's not hard'. I then walked away with my back faced to the owner to avoid further confrontation.

How should I have reacted?

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  • The celebrated author James Joyce always carried a walking stick, due to his fear of dogs. To be fair, he was once attacked by one. If I am going on a walk where dogs might be off the lead I feel less anxious if I am equipped with a stick. I react badly to the horrible and unpredictable noise dogs make by barking, so often have ear plugs as well.

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  • The celebrated author James Joyce always carried a walking stick, due to his fear of dogs. To be fair, he was once attacked by one. If I am going on a walk where dogs might be off the lead I feel less anxious if I am equipped with a stick. I react badly to the horrible and unpredictable noise dogs make by barking, so often have ear plugs as well.

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